The secret to being cool – cool, we would say – is in two words: diversity and autonomy. More precisely, according to scientists, it is necessary to violate social norms and conventions and show oneself free. Before taking any reckless actions, however, think for a moment: researchers warn of the danger of exaggeration, which would produce an effect exactly opposite to that desired. Different, but not too much: this is the mantra of the researchers.
Whenever you think about how to be attractive, you most likely think about all the things you miss to be attractive. Maybe you don’t have blue eyes, a statuesque physique; maybe you think you’re not smart enough or nice enough.
All of these characteristics are just standards set by our society, but I can understand that believing you don’t have these qualities can harm your self-esteem.
However, the reality is that none of these things are needed to attract! Put it in your head and come and truly see how attractive you can be in any situation.
You, like any of us, can be attractive.
Even if you do not consider yourself beautiful, even if there is that defect that bothers you and that you think may disturb the other person, even if you think that you are not what others are looking for, you must try to forget all these beliefs and reset your own mind. You may have seen trending videos on Youtube to watch how to be stylish.
In this article, I’ll reveal the essential strategies you need to know to be truly attractive.
Being attractive doesn’t take too much effort. Nonetheless, there are a few moves you can learn and practice to be attractive in any context.
- The first step is to build part of your self-esteem from the outside, which is to work on your body and all those things about yourself that you can actually improve. Do you feel out of shape? Do you eat badly and never move? I have no doubt that your body is affected and that you do not feel at the top. To feel good about yourself you need to make a little effort to improve your image and lifestyle as well. A little daily exercise and a healthy life will allow you to improve your body, at the same time feel “good with yourself” and fulfilled, because you know that you are working hard to show your best. Going to the gym and exercising is one of the first tried strategies to boost your self-esteem. Not because you have to have abs, or become a rock, but because physical activity releases endorphins into your body making you feel a feeling of euphoria and well-being.
- The second step in showing yourself really confident and attractive is to boost your self-esteem from within. And there is the real key to self-esteem. You can do the best job in the world, have a perfect body, big money and lots of friends, but all of these things will not improve your self-esteem if you feel that something is always missing inside you. Lack of self-esteem stems from your feelings of uncertainty, doubt, and generally constant negativity. Alright you’re always seeing the glass half empty. To improve your self-esteem you have to slow down the flow of negative thoughts you do and especially those aimed at yourself.